Lifestyle

Life in your 30s is a beautiful mix of growth, reflection, and becoming that girl. This space dives into everyday living — from routines and relationships to self-care, mindset shifts, and figuring life out one lesson at a time. Real moments, real stories, and gentle reminders that you’re doing just fine.

Just 90 Days: Small habits for winter

A new rule, routine, or challenge to transform you into a better version of yourself.

01/06/2026

I Lived with Fibroids Without Knowing: My Journey to Diagnosis, Surgery, and Healing

I celebrated, I was filled with joy and excitement, unaware that this milestone would soon lead me into a very different kind of journey, one that would have me sitting across from doctors hearing things about my body that made me feel unfamiliar with myself in ways I never expected....

21/05/2026

Stokvel

So, you are in your 30s with one income but want a million things, you are also a firstborn daughter (in every sense possible, not that there is another way really), IN THIS ECONOMY??? Yes, that’s me. You know how we always say that our parents did so much with...

07/05/2026

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30/03, I turned thirty-four. That’s right bafazi. I am officially in my Mid-30s, and I am so excited. I’ve always loved new beginnings, new chapters, fresh starts, and especially birthdays. There is just something about being given another year to grow, to evolve, to begin again. Now that I...

03/04/2026

First of All… Who Authorized This Hormonal Plot Twist?

A love letter to the resilient, hormonal, and beautifully complex journey of navigating your body in your 30s.

08/03/2026

2025 Wrapped

It’s the end of the year and I started a blog. Pheew… This sure was not on the cards, or so I thought. It seemed so random but a chat with a friend of mine reminded me that it has been a long time coming. I did not know what...

26/01/2026